Keeping it real : Do this, not that.

Color Key: Jolene | Harlow This past year has been an emotional and spiritual journey for both Jolene and I. I, being married for many, many years, and Jolene being recently divorced. We've cried, we've cursed, we've wanted to give up, we've...grown. Where in the past we would shout and or, in Jolene's case, castrate … Continue reading Keeping it real : Do this, not that.

Dear Harlow & Jolene

  So you guys are in for a real treat! Harlow and I received our first Keeping it Real advice question. Dear Harlow & Jolene, I love your Keeping it Real posts so I thought maybe you could help me with a situation. I've been married to my husband for over twenty yrs & I … Continue reading Dear Harlow & Jolene

Stop holding one another hostage

  I don't love him, but I don't want him to find happiness. I don't love her, but I don't want anyone else to have her. I don't love him, but I don't want to be alone; so I will just cheat until I can find someone to take his place. I don't love her, … Continue reading Stop holding one another hostage

Find your tribe and love them hard.

  Last night before I went to bed I reflected upon my day, sure it started out rough....stepping in dog crap first thing in the morning should have been the precursor of how my day would have gone but I didn't let it bother me, the unexpected snow storm that we got didn't damper my … Continue reading Find your tribe and love them hard.

Look who’s joining us today ….

***(Color Key: Jolene. Harlow. Layla.) Okay guys, you are in for a real treat today! Many of you may recognize our special guest from the Indie book world.  Joining us this week at Keeping It Real with Jolene and Harlow is Layla aka, The Bowtie Author's better half. BUT, besides being an author's wife she has the coolest job … Continue reading Look who’s joining us today ….

Step into your greatness and claim that shit!

“Jolene, I pray and pray but God doesn't respond. Can I ask you a question, did you ever think that you were making the wrong decision when you chose to leave, did you ever have moments of regret?” I  told my dear friend that I have never once regretted my decision to leave. In truth, … Continue reading Step into your greatness and claim that shit!

Love hard or avoid it like the plague ~ Keeping it Real with Jolene & Harlow

Hi guys!! I hope all of you are staying warm. Currently there is some wicked blizzard thing happening here in Nebraska. So, I'm staying home. It's better to be safe than stuck in a ditch somewhere.  Hey Harlow how are you doing this morning? Are you done molesting that coffee pot and well caffeinated? if … Continue reading Love hard or avoid it like the plague ~ Keeping it Real with Jolene & Harlow