I don't love him, but I don't want him to find happiness. I don't love her, but I don't want anyone else to have her. I don't love him, but I don't want to be alone; so I will just cheat until I can find someone to take his place. I don't love her, … Continue reading Stop holding one another hostage
I came across an article today that actually in my opinion was utter bullshit, okay maybe that's a bit harsh it just made for a multitude of eye rolls. What grabbed my attention was this big picture that read DIVORCE with the title, "6 lies we tell ourselves when divorce seems eminent." That piqued my … Continue reading Divorce articles, you gotta love them. NOT.
As the year comes to a close I have to say despite the turbulent beginning this year has been one of my favorites. Sure, the completion of the divorce was an added bonus but the fact that I stood my ground through the whole process and refused to be manipulated or scared off by … Continue reading From a sulking Sally to a sword reeling ninja
"I think you're making a big mistake." the wasband said as he stood in the door way holding his little blue thermal lunch pail, his bifocals on the tip of his nose. I searched for any sort of emotion in his eyes or a sudden change in his demeanor but all I saw was arrogance … Continue reading Boy what a difference a year makes
Yes, I have been married 3 times am I proud of it? no. But that's another story for another time. But after word got out that another marriage of mine had failed people were quick to judge or throw some nasty comments around, "She must have done something wrong." or "Well she knew what she … Continue reading I will not be silenced #MeToo
Three Dog Night got it all wrong when they wrote One is the loneliest number, sure it's a classic break up song when accompanied by a box of tissue, your drink of choice preferably a bottle of wine and a pint of ice cream but the song needs to be retired and replaced with more … Continue reading One is NOT the loneliest number
Having the balls to remove the negativity from my life and stand firmly behind my decision wasn't as easy as I thought it would be. The first thing that I had to do was recognize those who drained me emotionally, who caused unnecessary drama and those who really didn't serve a purpose in my life, … Continue reading Living a bullshit free life